Counselling & Family Therapy

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Snapshot

  • 1:1 counselling helps with managing emotions, building self-esteem, and improving organisational skills.

  • Family therapy addresses the impact of ADHD on relationships, fostering better communication, understanding, and practical strategies within the family unit.

  • Both therapies complement each other, offering emotional support to the individual while helping the family create a structured and empathetic environment.

  • These treatments are particularly valuable for managing co-existing conditions like anxiety, and improving the quality of family dynamics affected by ADHD.

While ADHD is often thought of as a condition affecting attention, hyperactivity, and impulse control, it also significantly impacts emotional wellbeing, relationships, and family dynamics – which is why counselling and family therapy are important treatments for both for the individual with ADHD, and for their loved ones.

1:1 counselling and family therapy both offer valuable tools to address the challenges that ADHD can presents, helping individuals and families understand and manage the condition in a supportive environment.

1:1 Counselling

1:1 ADHD counselling provides a safe space to explore how the condition affects your daily life, self-esteem, emotions, and relationships. A trained counsellor can help with understanding your behavioural patterns, thought processes, and the emotional impact of the condition.

This type of therapy often focuses on one or more of the following:

  • Managing emotions
    For many, ADHD can lead to emotional difficulties, including irritability and sometimes even anger. A counsellor works with the individual to develop coping strategies for managing intense emotions and improving emotional regulation.

  • Building self-esteem
    Many people with ADHD struggle with feelings of inadequacy, particularly if they have faced years of academic or professional challenges. Counselling helps rebuild self-esteem by highlighting strengths and encouraging personal growth.

  • Improving organisational skills
    Counselling sessions can also focus on practical aspects of managing ADHD, such as time management, setting priorities and overcoming with procrastination, as well as developing systems for staying organised in daily life.

Counselling often helps individuals gain a deeper understanding of how ADHD affects their mental health, making it easier to implement strategies that reduce stress and improve functioning. This is particularly important for managing co-existing mental health conditions like anxiety or depression, which are common in people with ADHD.

Family therapy for ADHD

ADHD doesn’t just affect the individual diagnosed with it; it can create tension and misunderstandings within families, particularly if parents or siblings struggle to understand ADHD behaviours.

Family therapy brings together family members to foster better communication, empathy, and collaboration in managing ADHD-related challenges.

  • Communication
    ADHD can cause communication breakdowns within the family due to impulsive behaviours or difficulty listening. Family therapy teaches active listening skills, enabling everyone to express their feelings and frustrations in a constructive way.

  • Understanding ADHD
    Many family members may not fully understand what ADHD is or how it affects their loved one. Family therapy educates the whole family about the condition, helping reduce conflict and improve patience.

  • Shared strategies
    Family therapy sessions also help families develop practical strategies for managing ADHD at home. This may include establishing routines, creating structured environments, and developing consistent approaches to managing impulsivity or emotional outbursts.

 

For parents of children with ADHD, family therapy is especially useful for learning how to provide effective support while maintaining a healthy parent-child relationship. This approach reduces stress on both the parents and the child, fostering a more cooperative family environment.

Combining 1:1 and family therapy

Combining 1:1 and family therapy can offer a comprehensive approach to managing ADHD. Individual counselling allows people with ADHD to focus on their personal challenges, while family therapy addresses the wider context of how the condition impacts relationships. Both approaches complement each other, offering a holistic treatment plan that strengthens the individual’s emotional and behavioural well-being, while improving the family’s ability to support their loved one with ADHD.

Together, these therapies provide tools for managing the emotional, practical, and interpersonal aspects of ADHD, ensuring that both individuals and families feel empowered to cope with the condition.

Key symptoms this can help with

  • Emotional Dysregulation
    Both individual and family therapy help individuals and their families manage emotional outbursts or frustration.

  • Impulsivity
    Therapy offers coping strategies to reduce impulsive reactions and improve decision-making.

  • Inattention
    Practical organisational tips from individual therapy can help individuals stay focused and organised.

  • Hyperactivity
    Family therapy helps families create routines and structure to manage hyperactive behaviours.

  • Low Self-Esteem
    Counselling rebuilds confidence by focusing on strengths and personal growth.

  • Communication Problems
    Family therapy aims to improve communication in all directions within the household, with the aim of reducing misunderstandings and conflicts.

 

More detail…

For many with ADHD or ADHD-type symptoms, emotional regulation is a core challenge. Individual counselling often focuses on developing strategies to manage intense emotions like irritability, anger, or depression, which can lead to impulsive behaviour. Through techniques like cognitive reframing or mindfulness exercises, individuals with ADHD learn to pause before reacting emotionally, allowing them to assess situations more calmly and respond more appropriately, reducing outbursts and improving relationships.

Counselling also helps identify emotional triggers and provides personalised coping mechanisms, making day-to-day emotional management smoother.

One of the biggest challenges ADHD presents within families is breakdowns in communication. Impulsivity, irritability, and emotional dysregulation can lead to arguments, misunderstandings, or feelings of frustration among family members.

Family therapy addresses these issues by teaching families how to communicate effectively, ensuring that everyone’s voice is heard. Techniques such as active listening and assertive communication are used to foster understanding and patience. This approach helps to reduce conflict, build empathy, and create a supportive home environment where ADHD symptoms are better managed.

For parents of children with ADHD, family therapy offers vital guidance on how to balance support and discipline. ADHD behaviours like hyperactivity or impulsivity can be difficult to manage, and parents may feel overwhelmed or unsure of how to respond.

Family therapy provides strategies for creating routines, offering positive reinforcement, and setting clear expectations. Parents learn to focus on positive behaviours and encourage their child’s strengths, rather than focusing solely on negative ADHD symptoms. This can lead to a more harmonious home life and a healthier parent-child relationship.

Many individuals with ADHD also experience co-existing mental health conditions such as anxiety, depression, or low self-esteem. Counselling plays a crucial role in addressing these issues alongside ADHD symptoms.

For example, anxiety often worsens when ADHD leads to disorganisation or unfinished tasks, creating a cycle of stress. A counsellor can help break this cycle by teaching strategies for better time management and emotional resiliance.

By addressing these overlapping conditions, counselling ensures that individuals can tackle both their ADHD and any related mental health challenges in a supportive and structured way.

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